Showing posts with label self hypnosis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self hypnosis. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Tips For Doing Self Hypnosis

When you talk to the average person on the street, chances are they will tell you that they know of self hypnosis, but they are a little leery about it. This is because they do not understand what is involved with it or how to do it. If you will practice and learn what you can do, you will more than likely be able to do self hypnosis.

Self hypnosis is used all the time for a lot of different reasons but usually it is used for personal development. It is a real confidence builder. It will also give them an upper hand in completing goals in life in addition to helping them with weight loss and to stop smoking. Self hypnosis has a great deal of influence on a person. It is absolutely amazing that it can help people with so many aspects in their personal life.

If you wish to get the greatest benefit out of self hypnosis, here are a few tips for you to follow. These tips, first of all, will help you accomplish your goals and, second of all, your life will be changed for the best in a New York minute! One thing that you will have to understand from the get-go is that your perception of things can have a tremendous effect on the way things will turn out. Here is one of the first tips that you need to keep in mind ” you must be willing to change the way you think. You will have to not only change your thoughts but your self-talk as well so that you will be supporting your personal goals and not be working against them.

You must be a firm believer in self hypnosis so that it can benefit you. If you happen to go into self hypnosis sessions having doubts in your mind, then the changes may be so small that you could be unaware of any change. It will completely amaze you as to what a person can do simply by changing the way they feel or think about something. You are going to have to begin by doing self hypnosis exercises in tiny steps so you will be able to learn to change your pattern of thought. When you believe you can really do it and you can actually see yourself doing it, then you are within reach of your goals.

You are going to have to keep a certain level of desire in your mindset as far as your goals are concerned. It is by keeping this desire for your goals high during the time you are doing self hypnosis, then you will be assured that the results are precisely what you want. It is true that the art of self hypnosis may not be for everyone so you may want to ponder this when you want to improve some aspect of your life.

It is very important that you be open minded and remain on the positive side no matter what. Once doubt begins to creep in, self hypnosis will be that much more difficult to do.

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Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Can "Self" Hypnosis Really Work?

After a hypnosis client has a breakthrough, thanks me, and shakes my hand vigorously, I ask a question he or she does not expect:

"Now are you ready to learn self-hypnosis?"

Some respond with an immediate "Yes!" but a surprising number get quiet.

"You can't really hypnotize yourself, can you, really?" they finally ask.

I know it seems crazy. How can you be the hypnotist and the hypnotizee simultaneously? Can you split your mind that way? Doesn't it take a lot of effort? How would you say the right things and relax at the same time?

I had the same questions when I first learned about hypnosis. You may be as surprised as I was to discover that it is possible, even simple.

Self hypnosis capitalizes on a natural state of mind you've often encountered, perhaps without noticing it.

Here's what I mean: you get into the right mental attitude for hypnosis many times a day naturally, without trying. Or even knowing that you're doing it.

An example: Every time you tell yourself something about how something will be in the future, or repeat the same words over and over in your mind, or conjure up the same mental pictures-you are informally self-hypnotizing.

This can be even more powerful when you're already in a dreamy, meditative state, a state that is hypnotic.

So why not take the ability you already have and use it to your advantage? Sounds smart, doesn't it?

-Refine Your Natural Technique

Because self hypnosis is quite effective, tell yourself only the things that you desire, not what you fear, despise, or want to avoid. Same goes for the mental movies you run. Show yourself the future you desire, not the one you're worried may occur.

Stop telling yourself "I'm going to lose my job." Instead say: "Every day I'm learning, sharpening my skills, and making myself a valuable asset at my current job and for future jobs."

Apply this approach to any aspects of your life (romance, home life, parenting, sports) and you can "hypnotize" yourself into improvement and happiness.

How to get started?

-Recall And Make Use Of Your Good Times

Self-hypnosis usually involves picturing what you want. To make that easier, simply borrow thoughts, feelings and memories from good times that already occurred.

Example: Before I give a speech, as I walk up to the podium, I recall that time I spoke to 550 realtors who were excited and grateful to hear my message. Those 90 minutes in front of an energized room is every speaker's dream.

I use that experience in this way: Before I give a talk, I imagine myself standing in front of that large, enthusiastic crowd of realtors. I recall the eager faces I saw. Feel the happiness in my chest. Hear their loud clapping. It only takes a moment, but it lets me present myself to any group, whether five people or five hundred, with the same feeling of confidence and excitement.

Find your moment. It doesn't have to be a big moment, just one that makes you feel the way you want to feel. Use it relentlessly.

-Put Your Mind On A Diet

When on a diet, smart people put healthy, low-fat goodies in their cupboards and toss away fatty and sugary saboteurs. Do the same with your thoughts. Steer clear of self-blame, ridicule and stories about negative incidents of the past.

Think of them only long enough to decide what you want instead. "Instead of a supervisor who belittles me, I am now looking to work for someone who is fair, helpful, shows me my good points and objectively directs me to improve."

-Edit Out What You Shouldn't Be Telling Yourself

Self critique is smart if it's objective, useful, and quick enough to make its point and move you to what you want-to be, do, and feel.

Run an audit of your thoughts to notice the damaging or unproductive thoughts you've been saturating your mind with. Quickly ask yourself: "What am I trying to teach myself with these thoughts?" Look for simple, sensible nuggets.

A client realized that self-berating thoughts like "You're so fat, you're busting out of your clothes," "You'll never get a great guy like this," and "You're ruining your knees with all this weight" were simply indications of a desire to protect and improve herself.

She changed the ideas to: "You look great when you're lean and your clothes fit well," "You attract a guy who likes you the way you like yourself to be," and "When you're lean, your body feels good and supports you best."

Within three months of changing her thoughts, she lost 30 pounds and was casually dating several men whom she enjoyed being with.

-Make It Feel Real So It Becomes Real

When you allow yourself to sense that, inside, you are the person you want to be, and your outsides (appearance and ways of speaking and behaving) are beginning to follow suit, it feels real. It begins to become real. And soon enough, your goal is fully realized.

All you have to do is start the process, and allow yourself to notice even the subtlest beginnings of positive change.

-Let Go And Enjoy

Once you get yourself started on these changes of thought and action, let your own subconscious keep that ball rolling. Intervene as needed to correct your course, as sailors do, but do appreciate nature's help in moving toward your goal in ways that are unexpected, subtle and surprisingly easy. ©2008 by Wendy Lapidus-Saltz. All rights reserved.

Wendy Lapidus-Saltz is a hypnotist & mind coach specializing in smoking cessation, love attraction and career issues. She maintains a Chicago office and works with clients worldwide by phone. Wendy's "Secret Self Hypnosis" CD/MP3 teaches people self hypnosis easily and safely. Reach her at ILAPSAL@aol.com or 312-640-1584. Visit her website http://www.nonsmoker4life.com andhttp://www.hypno-attraction.com

Monday, June 8, 2009

Self - Hypnosis - You Can Do It

Hypnosis is believed to be an effective way of making you change your perspective in life and to make you stop with your vices just like turning off a switch. If you smoke, you know how hard it is to just quit. Perhaps you've tried everything but you just can't quit the habit. Many have attested to the effectiveness of hypnosis and news is just spreading like wildfire with this new way of finally saying NO to smoking. And it's not just with smoking that hypnosis is known to be beneficial, some even say they start losing weight after having hypnotherapy. Just about anything in your life can be changed through hypnosis. It's a very helpful type of therapy but can be destructive if used limproperly.

So, how do you do self hypnosis? It's different with self hypnosis because you don't have a professional hypnotherapist to guide you through your menta transition and if done improperly, could cause more problems instead of making positive changes. It is best that you do your research first and use the right tools for your self hypnosis.

One of the most common tools used for self hypnosis is a hypnosis CD. Hypnotherapists have developed self-hypnosis CDs so even without being physically present; they are still guiding you through the entire process. Hypnosis CDs will make you relaxed and would bring you to that mental state where the hypnotherapist would then feed commands to you and your brain quickly absorbs this commands and when you wake up, you'd feel a sudden change in you and your brain just simply rejects cigarettes or will just make you stop eating too much.

As long as you get your hypnosis CDs from a reliable source and with accreditation, you will be just fine. Experience this amazing new way of making you reach your goals and with very little effort. Discover your true potentials through hypnosis.

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